Shades of Love is evolving into a full sexual wellness boutique, offering customers a warm, respectful space to explore intimacy, connection, and self-care. Our all-female team is passionate, knowledgeable, and here to guide you with compassion and discretion. In our clean and inviting atmosphere, you’ll find a thoughtfully curated selection of lingerie, body-safe toys, wellness essentials, books, and more. We proudly welcome people of all genders, identities, and orientations — and our workshops and events are designed to support everyone on their journey to confidence and pleasure.
Shades of Love was the 1st adult store and boutique in San Antonio, TX.
From The Owner, Rita
Welcome to Shades of Love — a boutique built from the heart, by women, for everyone.
Established in 2000 as the city’s first female-owned adult boutique, our mission has been simple: to create a safe, welcoming space where people of all walks of life can feel seen, empowered, and celebrated in their intimate journeys.
From its inception, founder Rita Delgado envisioned a space where individuals could explore their desires without judgment. With a background in social work and education, Rita’s mission was clear: to create a comfortable, clean, and safe haven for those seeking to enhance their intimate lives. Overcoming initial challenges, including societal resistance and restrictive local laws, Shades of Love has flourished into a beloved establishment that prioritizes inclusion and empowerment. Shades of Love
We’re proud to share that Shades of Love is evolving. We are currently transforming into a full sexual wellness boutique focused on holistic pleasure and well-being. That means every product on our shelves is carefully chosen with your body, safety, and comfort in mind. From non-toxic, pH-balanced lubricants to organic massage oils, and quality toys — we’re here to support your wellness from the inside out.
Beyond its curated merchandise, Shades of Love is dedicated to education and community engagement. The boutique offers a variety of classes and workshops designed to foster open conversations about sexuality, relationships, and self-discovery. These intimate sessions, limited to small groups, provide a safe space for learning and growth, reflecting the store’s commitment to holistic well-being. Shades of Love
Shades of Love accolades, including recognition as one of San Antonio’s top adult stores. Shades of Love
Located at 300 W Bitters Rd, Ste 150, Shades of Love invites you to experience a boutique where sophistication meets sensuality. Whether you’re seeking to explore new facets of intimacy or simply indulge in elegant lingerie, Shades of Love offers a refined and inclusive atmosphere for all.San Antonio Current+7MapQuest+7Kinky Korner+7
We’re honored to be part of your personal journey, and we thank you for your patience and support during this exciting transition.
Best,
Rita
Love, Rita
Meet Shades of Love Awesome Team!
Meet Rose
Since opening, Rose has been a treasured part of Shades of Love Known for her warmth, wisdom, and open-minded nature, she’s become a trusted guide for customers looking to enhance their intimate lives with confidence and care.
With a background in kinesiology from Palo Alto College and a Bachelor of Science in Community Health from Texas A&M University, Rose brings both heart and knowledge to everything she does. Her passion for sexual wellness make her a go-to for thoughtful, personalized recommendations.
Rose enjoys hiking, caring for her many animals, and spending time with her grandchildren.
Looking to spice things up or just need a little guidance? Rose is always here with a kind ear and expert insight.
Meet Elizabeth
Elizabeth has been part of Shades of Love since the very beginning — she was just eight years old when her grandmother opened the boutique. Today, she’s a cherished member of our team, bringing her natural warmth, dedication, and vibrant energy to everything she does.
A proud mother of two (and cat mom to Snowflake), Elizabeth is the embodiment of service with a smile. Her passion for helping others led her to complete a professional certification in sexual wellness, allowing her to guide customers with both knowledge and compassion.
Elizabeth’s presence is a beautiful reminder of our roots — and a bright part of our future.
Meet Chauntel — Our Instructor
Chauntel Logan is a certified Sex Coach, Fertility Doula, and Erotic Author with over a decade of experience in women’s health. With a background as a Certified Medical Assistant, she blends clinical knowledge with deep, heart-centered care to help women feel empowered in their bodies and confident in their desires.
Whether she’s guiding couples to reignite their intimacy or supporting women on their fertility journeys, Chauntel fosters a safe, judgment-free space to explore, heal, and thrive.
Her mission is simple: to help you feel your best—inside and out.
In loving memory of my beloved parents
Shades of Love began as a dream — one that came to life with the love, guidance, and support of my parents. Their encouragement gave me the strength to open San Antonio’s first female-owned adult boutique, creating a safe, welcoming space for people to explore intimacy with confidence and dignity.
While our shelves may change, our heart remains the same: a space rooted in compassion, empowerment, and authenticity. My parents’ spirit continues to guide everything we do.
With gratitude,
The Shades of Love Family
