Caught in the same old same old sex positions. Try these. Make it your goal to try a new sexual position once a week.
“Like to kiss and cuddle? If so, you will especially enjoy this position. He sits on the bed with his legs straight in front of him. She sits on the man’s lap facing her partner, with her legs spread open in front of her. The closer you get, the more you spread your legs, the deeper the penetration. If you have been together for a while and no longer spend much time kissing, this would be a good time to do some serious necking. Ladies, lift and lower your hips up and down your partners’ penis by clenching your vaginal muscles, great for kegel exercise and keeping the penetration tight. Men, lift and lower your hips synchronously with your partner. As her hips come down, your hips go up.”
“Use the feather to tickle and stimulate your partner, making sure the touch is light and soft; both men and women will find it exciting. Start with the face and neck and slowly move down the body to the more erogenous places. Don’t forget the inside of your partner’s thigh slowly making your way to their hips and pelvis and eventually using the feather to stimulate your lover’s genitals. Men rub the outside of her vagina, and ladies tickle the sensitive perineum area—foreplay at its best. Let your partner know when it is time to switch from the feather to fingers or a hand.”
“Clean off your coffee table for this one—the man lying on his back and the woman sitting on top. The most significant difference in this position instead of the man having their legs flat on the bed, both the man and the woman have their legs straddling the coffee table. The downward pull of the leg muscles combined with the woman leaning backward result in a snug and deep penetration at an unusual angle. Gentlemen having your feet on the floor gives you extra leverage for powerful and deep thrusting.”
“This position is better suited for women who like to take control. Guys lie on your back with your legs straight to in front of you. Ladies, sit on top of the man facing the man’s feet. Start with your legs spread open, allowing you to reach between your legs to grasp your man’s penis and guide it to the proper spot for insertion. Once penetration has occurred, put your legs together and rest them on the man’s legs. For optimum tightness, close your legs as far as possible.”
“The man lies comfortably on his side. The woman lies perpendicular to the man, usually on her stomach. Using one hand on his shaft for support, start to gently lick around the head of his penis. Use a flavored lubricant to keep your mouth moist and warm. Tease him for a while with just some tongue using your other hand to caress his face and chest or massage his testicles. After teasing him for a while put his penis in your mouth, while keeping him in your mouth run your tongue around the head and up and down the shaft.
A few words of advice from Lou Paget: “If you use saliva to help lubricate, you could risk ending up with dreaded “desert mouth,” especially if you’ve had wine at dinner, which is a natural desiccant.”