Better Sex With The Right Sex Toy Products!
“As we age, things droop, dry up and slow down. Adding an accessory to keep things active during sex play is better. Whether alone or with a partner. Changes in body function and ability, body image difference, and lower desire often plague the older person or couple.” (Dr. Patti Britton, clinical sexologist and co-founder of SexCoachU.com)
Thankfully there are many products on the market today that help older people can use to help increase comfort for themselves and their partners and enjoy sex more.
We chose the following products because of the ease of using, no complicated settings, ease to hold, and many are versatile.
One of the essential muscles in the human body is the pubococcygeus muscle, better known as the PC muscle. As we get older, the vaginal walls atrophy, and distention can arise due to the decline of estrogen or multiple births and prolonged time of no sex.
Kegel exercisers like ben-wa balls help strengthen the PC muscles.
We highly recommend the following products for the Kegal exercise.
These three uniquely weighted Kegel balls, differently weighted, tapered balls to track increased strength for the PC muscle- can also help with urinary incontinence and pleasure. Smooth silicone, easiness of use, and cleaning after your progressive training weights – are all that make your Kegel set the best. Quick guide manual leaflet and storing pouch included.
Vaginal atrophy is a condition that can become more prevalent as we get older. As the body ages, estrogen levels fall, decreasing vaginal size and elasticity.
This five-piece silicone dilator offers increasingly larger sizes, starting with a finger-width dilator, all the way to a one-inch wide.
Toys to help with achieving orgasm!
“I am a huge proponent of using a Magic Wand externally for clitoral arousal; we still find that over 90% of women need direct or indirect clitoral stimulation for orgasm to occur, even during penis-in-vagina sex.” (Dr. Britton)
The BEST SELLING Magic wand and its three variations continue to dominate the wand market.
Dr. Patti Britton believes that “weaker, softer, less responsive erections are a factor in aging and may cause emotional and psychological harm if expectations outperform behavior.” Often, a penis pump can help generate a soft erection by using external suction instead of relying on internal erectile tissue to create one.
We recommend the Optimale Power Pump featuring a soft silicone sleeve to create an airtight seal, a pressure gauge, and a measuring guide to monitor progress. A button press initiates the device’s auto-pump action, and a quick-release valve allows for customization.
Suggested Toys For Both!
Holding a sex toy may be more difficult when conditions such as arthritis or Parkinson’s creep into one’s hands. We recommend the Wellness Palm Sense Vibe. This Palm vibe turns your hand into a strong, 10-function vibrator. The finger fin slips easily between your fingers. Press the smooth silicone vibe body against your most sensitive erogenous zones.
The Palm Sense is easy to hold and perfect for solo or partner play! Palm Sense is USB rechargeable (eco-friendly and no batteries required), plus waterproof for easy cleaning and play in the bath or shower. Made of smooth UltraSilk silicone, the palm sense vibe toy is body-safe and phthalate-free. Clean your toy after use with lukewarm water and a toy cleaner.
Another easy-to-grasp vibrator is the Rev from Ohmibod. Perfect for foreplay or the main event, this easy-grip finger massager delivers a purring vibration to all the right places. Lovelife Rev is designed with accessibility in mind, featuring an ergonomic design that’s easy to hold, a single large button, and a manual with a large typeface for readability. We firmly believe that pleasure is for everyone. 5 preset pulsations. USB Rechargeable. Waterproof.One-year warranty.
Looking like an open-sided cock ring with flexible arms to encircle penises or other sex toys, this three-motored, curved powerhouse can be used in multiple ways. Its U-shape is ergonomically designed to massage the penis, the perineum, the nipples, and much more. Its materials make it flexible for sensational comfort. It is waterproof and effortless to clean. Thanks to its three motors, you can enjoy more than 100 combinations of vibration and 11 possibilities of use.
We Recommend Our Best Selling Wild Rose Clit Sucker!
Prepare to blossom with pleasure with this rose-shaped Bloomgasm 10X Silicone Suction Clit Stimulating Rose Toy! This Wild Rose clit sucker fits neatly in your hands so you can play and explore comfortably – perfect for use on your own or with your partner. Combine this sucking rose with a penetration toy or use it during intercourse and elevate your pleasure! Enjoy three levels and seven patterns of intense suction – suck your nips, clits, and sensitive bits for toe-curling pleasure on your own or with your lover! Measurements: Overall length 2.6 inches, overall width 2.3 inches, suction hole diameter 0.4 inches, Constructed with a premium body-safe silicone that is phthalate-free, latex-free, and compatible with water-based lubes only. Designed with IPX6 waterproofing for shower-friendly clit sucking fun. USB Rechargeable: Keep this Rosebud at full power for deeply satisfying suction on-demand; USB charging cable included. One Year Warranty.
Vaginal dryness is a big issue especially as we grow older. Medications we take can also affect how we lubricate. often daily use of a vaginal moisturizer may increase overall vaginal comfort.
We recommend using JO® RENEW Vaginal Moisturizer an intensive moisturizing cream specifically designed for women. The blend of moisturizers including bisabolol, aloe vera, and cucumber fruit provide a gentle daily use formula designed to relieve vaginal dryness. The rich, silky cream offers a drip-free application for ease of use day or night.
Best Lubricant !
We recommend Uberlube. This long-lasting lubricant is a popular favorite, perfect for any body, and has a thicker consistency than other silicone lubes. Dr. Britton says, “I am a fan of Uberlube as it can help couples to feel more sensation, build more arousal and keep things slippery.” Shades of Love is also a fan of Uberlube. Packaged in a glass container and easy-to-use pump.
As we age “Sex doesn’t disappear, it just changes forms.” — Eric Jong