Talking Dirty Can Steam Up Your Relationship!
Have you ever tried talking dirty to your man? Try practicing in front of a mirror until you feel comfortable. Then tell him explicitly about what you want to do to him, and he to you, in bed. This can be thrilling to a man – especially when you never use that language outside of bed. Trust me he will love it.
Talking dirty not for you? How about starting with telling him discreetly, that you’re wearing sexy, skimpy, or no lingerie at all. Let the rest of the world see you dressed classically. Every man loves the idea of bringing out the wild side, of a woman. Believing he alone has the capacity to do that creates a bond unlike any other. It’s not just sensual – it’s mental, emotional, and spiritual as well.
Talking Dirty Suggestion
One of my favorites. Call him at work, where he cannot respond (in action) to what you’re saying or suggesting. This is another form of foreplay that helps build the sexual tension and heighten the anticipation of your next meeting. Still not ready to use the magic words? Hide one of your sexy, lacy panties(worn of course) in his briefcase with an explicit note letting him know how much he excites you.
Studies show that when it comes to men’s sexual experience, what they want most is not a perfect figure, physical beauty or even expertise. What men want more than anything else is simply for their partner to be into it. During an intimate encounter, contrary to what some women have been led to believe, a man is looking for your mind, body, and soul to be in full relationship with the project at hand. He wants to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he turns you on. Make him feel there is no place else in the world you’d rather be than with him, making love. It does not have to be that way every time you have sex. There will be times that, one or both of you just want to have an orgasm to relieve stress, sleep better or any one of the other benefits we get from having an orgasm. But as often as possible let your sexual encounter with your partner be like the one described above. I promise you, you’re relationship will grow stronger as you reignite as well as reinforce the closeness between you. (Excerpts from Lou Paget)