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When is the Right Time for a Man to Climax?

Men don’t just want to cum as fast as they can (well, not all men). You might be surprised to know that they want a little romance during sex, too. So when would be the right time to let them climax?

Of course, the ideal answer is: After you have.

Kidding aside, the ideal time for a man to climax is when he can’t stand it anymore. That sounds kind of sadistic and, depending on the man, it might be. But, if you do foreplay and sex right, your man can get overwhelmed with desire. This can fill him with a ferocity and frustration because he really wants you. When he gets in the mood and is almost overstimulated, you can let him orgasm.

But you shouldn’t actually overstimulate him. There’s actually a fine line between overstimulation and the right amount. The penis can get very sensitive if touch is applied in certain areas, which can cause sex to actually be painful and a huge turn-off for him.

Instead, try and find the thing that makes him go crazy in the best way, that “makes his leg shake,” and stimulate him slowly and consistently. That way, instead of over applying sensation, you’re applying consistent sensation for a long time, which is way better.

You can slow down an orgasm by moving to hand stuff. While pickier men don’t prefer this stuff, a big portion of men actually love handjobs when done correctly. Hand stuff can be a bit rougher, but it also feels amazing without adding too much lubrication to things. Plus, as long as you’re doing work down there, he’s going to like it (unless you’re clamping down. Make sure you’re not using a karate grip down there).

Another way of slowing down an orgasm for a guy is to literally slow down sex. Rapid repetition on the penis, by its nature, adds a lot more stimulation. When you slow down, you’re not putting as much sensation on it, since you’re getting rid of a lot of stimulation. It still feels good, plus it makes him stay hard longer.

If you want to speed up an orgasm, try using lubrication. Lube, lotion, and even spit enhance sensation without making it too rough for the penis. It also feels great for him (and for you, too, hopefully).

If you really want it done, then make him do it. A man’s going to know what’s best for making him climax, so you can be sexy in front of him while making him get down to work. Many men respond the best with visual input, so just being there and telling him to climax might be just the thing to put him over the top.

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